Wednesday, December 05, 2007

Self Belief and Respect

Belief in self, if accomplished is the biggest motivation that a man can have. But it is one of the most difficult things to achieve. To understand the word better let’s break down the two words: Self and Belief.
What is Self? This is an all important question that every one should ask to self. Every one in the world is selfish. They live for themselves. They do what they think is right. They act for the people they love. Even die for something they love the most. Every single act is carried by self is for self.
Yet most of us fail to realize the "real" self within. We chase for dreams that were never ours. We neglect the one we love, for nothing. We never bother to think what we really want. Knowing this "real" self is the first step to self Belief.
To be face to face with self, we need to shed all presumptions we have of ourselves. Introspect and only when you can completely vaporize the image of self, you will know your “real” self. There will be room for no one. You care for none. All your actions will only be for you. You live your ideology. Just you, your love your life.

Once you know “SELF”, let’s see what belief is. Simply put belief is unquestioned devotion. Where there are no doubts. So Self Respect is such a huge force that can defy impossible. Because first we know what we want and what our abilities are and then we know that we will achieve the target.

Respect, the other aspect is as important as self-belief. Respect here means respect to others, your friends and foe, strong and week, intelligent and dumb. Respect will help you in judging their strength. You understand them better. Apart from the interior benefits it makes you feel good and passes the same aroma around. It makes the world around you a better place to live.

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